When Our Family Patterns Intersect With Our Soul Patterns
When we first start diving into the realms of energy fields and soul awakenings, we start to recognise different patterns and how they play their part in our life.
While facing these patterns can be exhilarating and liberating they can also leave you with endless questions and feeling more confused than ever.
We first start with opening our field to the possibility that we are the creators of our own destiny and that our energy attracts similar energy. That on its own, can be a lifetime journey of manifestation, creating a life full of abundance.
Then we start discovering about our soul and how we have journeyed many lifetimes before our time here and now. We discover we have more knowledge encrypted in our soul from previous timelines, but we don’t know how to access it.
We begin to comprehend that certain lessons we are experiencing now, are actually part of our souls contract.
This is when our mind starts to feel completely blown, and we begin to delve into the unknown to unearth things that we never dreamt were possible.
It’s like jumping down the rabbit hole only to discover there are endless tunnels to explore.
The overwhelm is real, there are so many possibilities, but instead of allowing the uncertainty to create fear, allow it to create intrigue and mystery.
We are all drawn in different directions depending on the life experiences we have already lived, that is why there are so many options we can take.
The direction my body and soul chose to take me, were that of family and lineage. It’s embedded in my DNA. My family, whether from my unsettled childhood or the exhilarating and challenging experience of creating my own family, is where my energy lives. My family experiences, no matter the joy or challenges, were guiding me to understand the depths of the reason my soul chose this body at this very moment in time.
It’s like a vortex that draws me in, completely confusing me at times, yet utterly intriguing me at the same time.
HOW ARE THE PATTERNS IN YOUR FAMILY AFFECTING YOUR LIFE?
There is a unique collective vibration that travels through our family tree, at some point in our life we will all succumb to it. Depending on your interaction with your family and the patterns that exist, it may mold you to rebel against it or to continue on the same path. This is where I find the lessons from our soul tend to intersect with our family patterns to steer us.
Families mould us. They program us with traits and belief systems that have been passed down through our generations. This is also true for our emotions and energetic patterns too. Depending on how aligned you are with your family, this may be a positive or negative experience. This is where you may start to notice similar issues or events cycle through your family and through the generations.
You don’t need to have known a relative or grown up with someone to have their energetic patterns passed on to you, it’s carried through your DNA.
What you do need to know is how you can shift that energy, especially if it’s not your lesson to live.
Yes, some of these lessons may be exactly why you chose your birth family, but some will also be trapped emotions from past relatives that haven’t been witnessed and disbursed from your family.
The beauty of working with energy is recognising those that have not been witnessed and released by others, and those that are true karmic lessons for you to learn from.
There will be many reasons why your soul chose to come to earth at this particular moment in time, one of which may have been so you can correct an imbalance in your family that has existed for many generations.
Creating this change will start a ripple that can be felt by the entire family in all directions, both past and future. By allowing your present circumstance to re-thread the energy of the past with the energy of the future, you are energetically reweaving the tapestry of your family.
RECOGNISING THE SYNCHRONICITIES
For much of my younger life I believed past lives to be fiction. Everything I had heard made me feel like past lives were meant to be under the sea in Atlantis or in another galaxy with the Pleiadians. Well if you’re lucky you may have experienced these, but many experiences are from previous moments in time on this planet.
This is where many of our deja vu experiences show us a similar event happening, but not from this timeline.
Can you recall a moment in time where you felt like you’ve lived an experience before, but you know you haven’t?
Well, all l can say is, open up to the possibility that this is very real and enjoy the ride, because it’s wild and wonderous.
The more you open yourself up to what is actually possible, the more you’ll realise you’ve only just scratched the surface of it.
You’ll realise that everything you thought was science fiction is actually more real than your imagination can comprehend.
I’ll give you an example from my life of how intrinsically your body and your soul co-create together to lead you to your purpose. My sister died when I was only 6, and because of this and the connection we had, I remained connected with her and our relationship continued on a soul level. Even though I couldn’t hold her and vice versa, we still experienced life together. As much as it would have been beautiful to live life’s experiences with her, if she hadn't passed away, then I probably would have lived a great deal of my life not knowing what a soul was, or that they can exist outside a physical body or that they exist multi-dimensionally.
Another example of recognising the synchronicities in the patterns; My son and daughter were experiencing similar issues that my brother and I have lived during the majority of my life, interestingly these were the same issues my mother experienced with her brother. At the time, my daughter was pregnant with my granddaughter, and the overwhelming feeling of my maternal instincts kicked in telling me that I have experienced everything to date to create a shift in the field, to change this cycle, so it didn’t continue into the next generation.
These weren’t just things that happened, they were breadcrumbs. My soul was leading my body in the direction of my true destiny.
There is more at play here than just coincidences. You are being guided.
All these moments in time are leading you to a greater purpose. Yes they have happened to you in the physical reality of life, but these little synchronicities are guiding you to a greater calling.
These moments are the energetic makeup of the physical family you were born into, sprinkled with the magic of your soul, to help you believe that there is so much more out there than your next paycheck, or what your cousin is saying about you, or the amount of possessions you own.
Open yourself up.
Allow the magic to encapsulate you.
ALLOW YOUR GIFTS TO REVEAL YOUR TRUE PURPOSE
The beauty of our soul gifts are, they reveal themselves only when the time is right. You can’t force what you think they might be or push yourself to create something that isn't. They reveal themselves when the little synchronicities in your everyday life have aligned.
Sharing your gifts and the path you’ve walked is sacred, don’t diminish it by dimming your light or by not being your authentic self. When these gifts have shown themselves to you, you won’t need to force them, they will be ready for the world to see. They’ll be infused with the essence of your soul, and they’ll speak to the people that need it the most. These people are your soul family and you will find your bond runs deep.
‘And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud, was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.’ Anais Nin.
Perhaps you have found an underlying pattern or emotion in your life that seems to always circle back, even when you feel you’ve tackled it, time and time again. Or you continue to be guided to a certain type of person that creates the same issue you have experienced with many others, for what seems like lifetimes.
That’s the beauty of our soul purpose, even when you try to separate it from your life to create clarity or to try to decipher the information that comes to you, it still becomes entangled in the events around you, because it’s part of the journey you are on. It’s not meant to be separated, it’s meant to be embraced to create oneness.
This is why Family Patterns (Generational Healing) as well as Soul Patterns are so intriguing to me. Both hold a unique and strong vibration and when they intersect at different points throughout your life, it’s to create experiences for us to learn from and carry forward in this lifetime and beyond.
Since the birth of my granddaughter there have been many sparks within the family field that have shown me why my granddaughter's soul chose our family. I now see the wisdom I have cultivated and the nurturing I embody has been in preparation for the greater collective of not only my descendants but for that of humanity.
Allow your gifts to shine bright.
Bring them to life by feeling the full rainbow of emotions, not just the ones that seem pretty.
You are a beautiful multifaceted, multidimensional being, here to alchemise your experiences and create the change you have desired your entire life.
Deciphering your soul patterns from your lineage patterns can be complex. Illuminate your Lineage Patterns is the fourth pillar of my Liberate Your Lineage program. If you’re like me and this is something that is calling from your soul or if it has sparked some curiosity in you, please reach out for a chat. I also offer a free 30-minute discovery call to help you feel into the container of this program.
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