Union Through The Divine Feminine & Sacred Masculine
We hear a lot about conscious relationships, twin flames, sacred union, and polarity. But do we really know what they mean? The divine feminine and sacred masculine play important “roles” in the conscious relationship, and can only work when there is a beautiful connection between the two.
The divine feminine and sacred masculine are within all of us, regardless of gender, but, for this article, I’m focused on the sacred masculine in a man and the divine feminine in a woman.
Women hold the power to make a difference in how their relationships flow.
Women set the tone.
Why?
Because women are the greatest expression of love.
A strong woman is one who is connected to her heart. In a conscious relationship, your power as a woman is not in your mind, or how much you know, or how much you do. It is in something more magical than that. It is all in your sensuality, your ability to flow, and your ability to connect with your heart. It is not what you do with your mind that is powerful, it is the way you feel into your body and really listen to its whispers, as your body always speaks to you.
When a woman is empowered, she knows that her power is in her heart and the way she loves so openly. Her power is in her sexual energy, her life force energy, and the way she connects with her deep, inner wisdom. It is in the way she is able to feel so deeply and be open about it. This is her strength that makes her a magnet for her desires.
A strong woman knows she is a magnetic force of energy that is constantly moving through her body. She moves through life with this soft, natural flow. Like the endless flow of the river, moving sensually down the banks of the river. It flows so effortlessly and gracefully, magnetising and creating life all around her with her sensual flow. Women are this river, moving in a way that no branch or rock can create stagnation. She is fluid and adaptable.
LET HIM BE YOUR WARRIOR
When a man feels love from her that is surrendered and open, this will wire his energy to stand solid and anchored, with his two feet on the ground, and move with fierceness but grace. When she listens and acts from her intuition, this ignites his inner shaman.
The way he holds the fort is his power. He holds it firmly, and dances with intention, to allow the path for her to move in a way that is so unknown, so magical, so deep. And, through that, he follows her lead. And she follows his.
He allows her to shine. He provides the tools for her to continue being the oracle that fuels his sacred warrior. He connects with her body. Not the other way around. He learns to lean into her sweetness and, from there, he meets with his own power.
In his sacred masculine, he knows how to use his tools to allow her to continue being in her authentic truth. For she is the Oracle. She is the Universe. And, for that, she is the one who shines. She expands further into this divine sacred union. She meets with her opposite self, as she sees her reflection in the way he responds to her.
When he is patient, calm, and rooted in his groundedness, away from his ego (trying to work everything out and make sense of everything), he catches her every move. He provides the container or the net for her to continue moving, as she is the water that melts into all of his cells.
When he is operating in his authentic sacred masculine, he makes her feel safe, loved, and appreciated. He becomes more of a warrior each time she melts into his chest that soothes her soul.
CONNECT WITH YOUR DIVINE FEMININE
When a woman is so connected with her divine feminine nature, and in harmonious balance with the sacred masculine, which is centred and rooted, she naturally opens herself up to experience all of her senses.
She does not need to speak of this, as this way of being is encoded within her through the way she moves through life.
It is seen in the way she experiences the pleasures of life, which enhances all of her experiences and moments.
When I speak about pleasures, I am speaking about the experiences that ignite the senses. She oozes into them and feels everything. She experiences them in her body, which then manifests into the world.
This is how she becomes magnetising to the sweetness of life in every way. I like to think of it like a flower. Women are the nectar that provides sweetness to this world, attracting life, beauty, opportunities, and life.
A woman, who is in touch with her divine feminine nature, uses her body as a vessel for all of life. She knows how to use it to move her feminine energy, which embraces Spirit, Divine, Love, Light. This is the light, it is our essence, it is Love. And we have access to this divine through the resonance of our heart always.
THE WAY SHE MOVES IS THE INITIATION OF A NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
When a woman knows, deep in her core and her soul, that she is always filled with love, compassion, and beauty, she knows she does not need to do more to prove herself, or to prove that she is worthy. She does not allow her ego, or past attachments or past stories, to intertwine with this love. She knows that it is not her ego that becomes a magnet for a conscious man, it is her heart.
Her warrior man is so anchored in his consciousness that he moves and acts always from intention. I believe that this is the great challenge for the masculine in his human form. His warrior is activated when he feels her trust in him, and when she allows herself to melt into her own feminine nature. He then wants to protect her heart further.
When she feels this deep presence of his, this deep security within himself, she then feels deeper. She is safe. She is calm. She opens her heart further. She connects more deeply with her wise woman, her inner oracle. And this is what she brings into the relationship: a continuous flow of bliss, beauty, and magic. A beautiful dance of the divine feminine and sacred mascluline.
This is the beauty of duality in a sacred union.
A woman’s power is in her ability to surrender, flow, and love.
This is why, as women, we must learn to rest in our natural state and body. We need to know what this feels like. To surrender to our softness.
A woman must learn to not act from the mind, or control the outcome (this is the hardest challenge women face in this masculine world). This will only create a closed heart. And this is the hardest thing, if we are so used to needing to control the outcome. Instead, we must learn to offer ourselves the loving attention that we deserve, and not make it the responsibility of someone else.
DIVINE SACRED UNION
When this empowered woman is in a relationship, she knows that she can open her heart so fully that she can continue to melt in her man’s embrace and he will protect her. Not because she can’t protect herself, or that she is inferior to him, but because this embrace allows her to melt further into his heart. Everytime my partner connects with me with his heart, my heart always opens further, and I allow whatever emotion to move through me like the oceans and rivers I spoke about.
This is the beautiful magic of a conscious, intimate relationship. Where two beings are so safe to be vulnerable to open their hearts. And, when she opens her heart’s petals, his warrior heart opens and is ignited further also.
So, for all the women out there, I want you to know that it is your powerful, magical love that will ignite his warrior self, as he wants to protect your love further.
He desires to embrace your heart with his powerful presence and consciousness. This is how he flourishes. However, you must both live from this divinity, which does not entail ego, instead, it embraces love, the Universe, light, and all that is.
In this conscious relationship, you both are not afraid to open your hearts to experience intimacy. This intimacy brings more love, more hope, more healing, more light, more growth, more consciousness. And guess who initiates this intimacy? Who leads this path to intimacy? Who opens the door for this connection to occur? It is you, Sister. And it is in this that creates a new, higher consciousness to occur between the sacred union.
When you anchor in your inner knowing (yes you must be anchored also before he can do this for you), he will feel energized. His heart becomes the fire and fuel. He will intertwine and continue to meet you in this dance. His presence ignites further as he continues to lean into your soft, delicate nectar.
It is just like in the dance of Salsa. He will lead, not from his own ego (although, I can tell you, a lot of men do this, but a conscious man will not), instead, he will lead through connecting with her essence, her sensual, beautiful expression.
He meets with her, and then knows how to hold her so she can continue shining, blossoming, and flourishing in her truest, rawest expression.
This is his greatest power. He knows what swords to draw, so she can melt into him and continue expanding further in this divine sacred union dance.
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